Yesterday I was excited about the first meeting of the El Lago Seniors at our community center. I feel it has a lot of potential for seniors to do all kinds of things. I got hubby out of bed in plenty of time but could tell he was having a hard time tracking what the plans for the day were...Seniors meeting from 10 to 1 with snacks, exercise and lunch and then off to my doc appointment at 1:30.
We arrived promptly at 10:00 and others began to arrive until there must have been at least 50 in the room. Wonderful round tables had been set up and a table of snacks against the wall with coffee. We got our plates and sat down near one gentleman who began to tell us his story and said his wife was going to join us (she never did and he disappeared). Other senior women joined our table and hubby got more and more disgruntled. At last one of his NASA buddies showed up with his wife and hubby went and chatted with them for a while. He came back and sat down and wouldn't join in anything or conversations and wore a big frown on his face.
A darling young woman introduced herself and said she would be leading us in excercises and had chairs all set up with weights. Everyone but hubby joined in. He sat pouting in his chair. It was fun and an exercise class will be offered for free every Tues and Thurs at 11:00. Then it was lunch time and I could tell he didn't want to eat. I asked if he wanted to leave and he angrily said "Yes." So we left. On the way home I asked why he didn't want to stay for lunch or exercise. He said, "Because I am so angry about not being able to get in and out of JSC without someone taking me and picking me up." Sheeessshhh! So I told to go ahead and be angry about it but to quit blaming me. I took him home, fed him lunch and was grateful to leave him there while I went to the doctor. I think we are entering a new stage of the disease and it ain't gonna be fun. I had hoped that this might be an enjoyable event for him....evidently not.